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Turkish Pickle sorry to hear my friend. I don't have anything to add, that everyone else has already stated. Grieve (if needed), process it and move on. Each time I buy a house or a car, or finish a project at work or at home; I notice things I would have looked for earlier, things I want to do better next time, easier ways of getting the same result. It's all trial and error my friend. We're all just stumbling around in the dark trying to find our way. Chin up brother and move forward.
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11-12-2021, 07:13 PM | #12017 |
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Turkish Pickle: It’s only up from here. Every time I’ve broken up with a girlfriend or they have broken up with me, my life has gotten better. Keep your head up, keep pushing forward and it’ll be ok. It just takes time.
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I'll be fine I think. Being by myself again sucks, but only on a physical level. We broke up because of many reasons but all ultimately pointed out to one thing: I was unhappy. I'm aware of mistakes I've made too, but it's impressive how much a negative person can take out of your day. I have some work to do on myself too I'm not really in the "lets go bang everything that moves" mood (yet?), I'm just enjoying the perks of being by myself and hanging with friends again. Life could be worse now and I think that's all that matters. |
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11-13-2021, 09:59 PM | #12020 |
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Just when I thought I was the forums Debbie downer.
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11-14-2021, 07:09 AM | #12021 |
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I'm not being a Debbie downer. Thats a lesson right there, one I've learned. Realizing how shitty an ex was makes going it alone much easier. I'm not alone mind you, I'm just not afraid of it if this relationship ends up being shit too.
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A few days in Carmel, Pebble Beach, Monterey and Laguna Seca. I didn’t meet one woman. Did you guys warn them that I was going up there? I did meet a couple very cool car dudes. So, I hung out with them.
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11-15-2021, 05:03 AM | #12023 | |
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Life could always be worse, but it's okay to feel down at times. End of the day life's good man, don't let a woman (or any person for that matter) have the power to take that from you. Only get one chance on earth, enjoy the fuck out of it. |
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I'll second this; I went on a bit of a tear between the ages of 28 and 30 and it was the most depressing period of my life. Mr Pickle, I'd recommend laying low for a while, gather yourself, then put yourself back out there when your head is straight again. It's much more fulfilling.
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Be careful banging anything and everything! No pregnancies or STDs!! My grown ass male bestfriend thought because this girl had a hysterectomy, she can't give him HIV. I shit you not. People are fucking dumb and reckless when it comes to sex. I'll stop being a mom now. Edit: because I can't spell Last edited by Sara; 11-15-2021 at 03:06 PM.. |
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In general, sorry to hear what you're going through. It's not easy. Also fwiw, closure can be defined and found in a lot of different ways. All up to you.
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Yeah I saw him there last night too. I swiped left though. Not my style.
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Most all titles have something to do with step-siblings as well, but I somehow doubt the same girls are everyone's step-sisters.....so I've been told. :
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