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On the way back she tells me she's been feeling like she's just a +1 to my life and that I never prioritize her. Turns out, this was only the second ever time this happened. I genuinely forgot we were going to cook dinner and just hang at home to watch a movie last night, I don't think that's never prioritizing someone. I also don't feel its fair to exaggerate it to always, nor fair to not say anything before. I asked her if she wanted to come with because I was going to BB, she says yes of course and jolts off the couch to get ready... It's like, why didn't you say "no i thought we were going to watch movie tonight"? |
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If she ends up like her parents I need to sprint out I overheard a call from her mom and I felt bad for gf, no single person deserves to be talked to that way. Terrible person. Dad is no saint either - she stopped talking with him completely after he finally introduced his latina 23 year old gf to her. She facetime'd me when visiting him, and he is a cool dude (but a terrible father) and he goes "Pickle, i figured my girlfriend is the same age as you!!" |
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06-03-2021, 01:04 PM | #9310 |
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Not just yet. She's young and it seems her communication skills are lacking. Sit down and chat with her. Tell her the next time if dinner and watching a movie was important to her then speak up. You are not a mind reader and expected to know that's what she wants especially when she jumps off the couch to get ready. Communication sucks but it's essential.
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06-03-2021, 01:11 PM | #9311 | |
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2nd this. |
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06-03-2021, 02:12 PM | #9312 | |
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And - I said exactly what you wrote! Yet still, ended up me forgetting her needs and wants. I asked how long she's felt this way (bc the way she said it came off like i've been doing this since day 1), she said not too long ago just lately. So I asked for a second example.... nope, nothing. The admission of "yeah I don't remember either but that's not what matters" was internally funny. That's more of what I'm concerned about - I told her this too over the weekend, obviously we perceive things differently but whenever we talk after my actions I doubt myself a lot. Something about that really doesn't sit well with me |
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06-09-2021, 12:40 PM | #9314 |
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This is 2021. Morality has left the chat. What you would normally expect, think the opposite outcome; that's your new expectation. Hope this helps. I'm struggling with it as well.
For conversation sake, elaborate. |
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06-09-2021, 02:31 PM | #9316 |
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I think I saw this on a episode of dateline recently
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I've posted this before. I'll post it again as it seems to fit.
"If you try to catch two rabbits, you catch neither one." |
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I've heard that lady-folk like D.
... I'll see myself out. Enjoy your book! |
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Read the 2nd one too, maybe then theres more action to explore
What the books are about, story, genre?
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I'm OK with them b/c until you F'ers pointed it out, I never thought of them as sea spiders!! Thanks
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I feel like A, B, C and whoever else should have their own dating thread. This may be where I abandon my own thread.
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but on a real note -its almost like a betting game, who will get into your pants first!! |
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