This is why I hate to mention my car outside of the enthusiast community...

KANdaddy · 08-10-2022, 11:42 AM

Was having a casual chat with my co-workers before a meeting. One of them who owns a nice VW SUV mentioned her car being in the shop for issues. Conversation turned to the subject of brands and their reliability then to everyone asking each other what kind of car they own. When the question came to me I just said "BMW", no mention of what model. The four other people immediately did the...."Ohhh...look out...I guess you make a ton of money...my bad...Mr. BMW (this included my boss)."

I just really hate this. I'm not rich.....very fortunate compared to others and, yes, able to comfortably afford my M3. But the perception by others.... I guess it is just in my head and I am sure it was harmless..but still. haha.

Gfit · 08-10-2022, 11:54 AM

Guess it depends on where you are located. I see as many BMWs a day as I do Hondas. Means nothing in terms of wealth. I got a guy that lives a few doors down, mid 20s, college grad, drives a new M3. Can't afford to move out because he spent too much on car.

G80indy · 08-10-2022, 11:59 AM

it's why i only drive the Z3 to work...

chicagofan00 · 08-10-2022, 12:03 PM

And here I am as having a picture of my M3 as my avatar on Teams at work.

If anyone tries to make a quip like that I usually just laugh and tell them I don't make good money but I have an excellent credit score that lets me get into all kinds of debt!

Usually though the image just makes for a nice little ice breaker at the start of meetings and inspires some cool conversation.

nearwater4me · 08-10-2022, 12:04 PM

Yup. I don't drive mine to work either.
It's funny how their perception works on German brands when there's 2 brand new Grand Wagoneers parked in front of the office building.

KANdaddy · 08-10-2022, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Gfit

Guess it depends on where you are located. I see as many BMWs a day as I do Hondas. Means nothing in terms of wealth. I got a guy that lives a few doors down, mid 20s, college grad, drives a new M3. Can't afford to move out because he spent too much on car.

Agree. I am in Silicon Valley and BMWs and Teslas are like Accords out here. Another reason why the reaction seems odd to me and why I just don't talk about, really, any of my hobbies or possessions outside of family and good friends. I wear crap watches and t-shirts to work for this reason as well.

Gfit · 08-10-2022, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by KANdaddy

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Originally Posted by Gfit

Guess it depends on where you are located. I see as many BMWs a day as I do Hondas. Means nothing in terms of wealth. I got a guy that lives a few doors down, mid 20s, college grad, drives a new M3. Can't afford to move out because he spent too much on car.

Agree. I am in Silicon Valley and BMWs and Teslas are like Accords out here. Another reason why the reaction seems odd to me and why I just don't talk about, really, any of my hobbies or possessions outside of family and good friends. I wear crap watches and t-shirts to work for this reason as well.

Oh damn. That is surprising then.

jimbethesda · 08-10-2022, 12:09 PM

Even more of a ridiculous comment because you didn't mention the year or the model. A brand new Honda Accord is worth more than a 20-year old 325i.

wtwo3 · 08-10-2022, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by nearwater4me

there's 2 brand new Grand Wagoneers parked in front of the office building.

Surprised they have the parking space for all that grand wagoneer. Must have recently expanded

robopp · 08-10-2022, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by KANdaddy

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Originally Posted by Gfit

Guess it depends on where you are located. I see as many BMWs a day as I do Hondas. Means nothing in terms of wealth. I got a guy that lives a few doors down, mid 20s, college grad, drives a new M3. Can't afford to move out because he spent too much on car.

Agree. I am in Silicon Valley and BMWs and Teslas are like Accords out here. Another reason why the reaction seems odd to me and why I just don't talk about, really, any of my hobbies or possessions outside of family and good friends. I wear crap watches and t-shirts to work for this reason as well.

You need to find a new job. If they're making decisions on things your wear and drive - get out of there. Fast!

jmg · 08-10-2022, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jimbethesda

Even more of a ridiculous comment because you didn't mention the year or the model. A brand new Honda Accord is worth more than a 20-year old 325i.

What if you include maintenance?

wtwo3 · 08-10-2022, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jimbethesda

Even more of a ridiculous comment because you didn't mention the year or the model. A brand new Honda Accord is worth more than a 20-year old 325i.

A 20 year old 325i probably costs a hell of a lot more than the accord to maintain though

bri1042 · 08-10-2022, 12:14 PM

Last time I heard something like this is was from a coworker in the same GS grade as me who was, mere moments earlier, complaining about spending $600 a week feeding his family of 7 on a single income. My response was something along the lines of "well, I spend about $80 a week feeding just myself and about $20 a week feeding the cats..."

Salary alone means nothing.

OF Hero · 08-10-2022, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by KANdaddy

Was having a casual chat with my co-workers before a meeting. One of them who owns a nice VW SUV mentioned her car being in the shop for issues. Conversation turned to the subject of brands and their reliability then to everyone asking each other what kind of car they own. When the question came to me I just said "BMW", no mention of what model. The four other people immediately did the...."Ohhh...look out...I guess you make a ton of money...my bad...Mr. BMW (this included my boss)."

I just really hate this. I'm not rich.....very fortunate compared to others and, yes, able to comfortably afford my M3. But the perception by others.... I guess it is just in my head and I am sure it was harmless..but still. haha.

You're just humble, and that's a good thing!

I feel this way sometimes, but it doesn't bother me as much as it used to.

nearwater4me · 08-10-2022, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by wtwo3

Surprised they have the parking space for all that grand wagoneer. Must have recently expanded

We're in a huge corporate gated campus along with other sister companies in the compound.
A new company recently launched and moved in downstairs with brand new vehicles.
Not sure if they're corporate owned or personal vehicles, but I know they easily go for 6 figures these days. lol

jimbethesda · 08-10-2022, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by wtwo3

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Originally Posted by jimbethesda

Even more of a ridiculous comment because you didn't mention the year or the model. A brand new Honda Accord is worth more than a 20-year old 325i.

A 20 year old 325i probably costs a hell of a lot more than the accord to maintain though

Good point! Although I doubt their reaction took that into consideration.

MassComp · 08-10-2022, 12:29 PM

All BMW owners are rich, huh?

I'll be purchasing my new M3 outright with a slightly used Porsche Macan & cash....does this classify me as rich too?

"Rich" to me is not having to go to work anymore for a living, and I'm not at that point yet....especially with my expensive toy habit....

KANdaddy · 08-10-2022, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by robopp

You need to find a new job. If they're making decisions on things your wear and drive - get out of there. Fast!

I actually love my job/company. But, ya, I do have to keep a low profile. The same employee made a big deal out of a Supreme North Face jacket I wore to work once (very low-key jacket with a small Supreme logo, BTW,...not obnoxious like some of their stuff). It was a touch embarrassing so I never wore it to work again. Again, maybe its in my head or maybe it is just her....yet everyone jumped on the comment bandwagon after her "Mr. BMW" comment. I think it was my boss sharing this sentiment that really irked me. I mean, she makes waaaay more than I do.

wtwo3 · 08-10-2022, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by MassComp

All BMW owners are rich, huh?

I'll be purchasing my new M3 outright with a slightly used Porsche Macan & cash....does this classify me as rich too?

"Rich" to me is not having to go to work anymore for a living, and I'm not at that point yet....especially with my expensive toy habit....

Did someone say Porsche?

jimbethesda · 08-10-2022, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by KANdaddy

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Originally Posted by robopp

You need to find a new job. If they're making decisions on things your wear and drive - get out of there. Fast!

I actually love my job/company. But, ya, I do have to keep a low profile. The same employee made a big deal out of a Supreme North Face jacket I wore to work once (very low-key jacket with a small Supreme logo, BTW,...not obnoxious like some of their stuff). It was a touch embarrassing so I never sore it to work again. Again, maybe its in my head or maybe it is just her....yet everyone jumped on the comment bandwagon after her "Mr. BMW" comment. I think it was my boss sharing this sentiment that really irked me. I mean, she makes waaaay more than I do.

Yeah, very unprofessional of your boss to join in.

MassComp · 08-10-2022, 12:39 PM

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Did someone say Porsche?

Yep, that's me!

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Tyga11 · 08-10-2022, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by KANdaddy

Was having a casual chat with my co-workers before a meeting. One of them who owns a nice VW SUV mentioned her car being in the shop for issues. Conversation turned to the subject of brands and their reliability then to everyone asking each other what kind of car they own. When the question came to me I just said "BMW", no mention of what model. The four other people immediately did the...."Ohhh...look out...I guess you make a ton of money...my bad...Mr. BMW (this included my boss)."

I just really hate this. I'm not rich.....very fortunate compared to others and, yes, able to comfortably afford my M3. But the perception by others.... I guess it is just in my head and I am sure it was harmless..but still. haha.

Report your boss to HR. You could file a dissemination lawsuit based on the things they're saying IE Toxic Workplace environment.

Power has shifted to the 'workers' now so you have a lot of options here

08-10-2022, 11:42 AM	#1
KANdaddy Colonel 2494 Rep 2,812 Posts Drives: 22 M3C XDrive-Ind Grey Blk Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Cali iTrader: (5)	This is why I hate to mention my car outside of the enthusiast community... Was having a casual chat with my co-workers before a meeting. One of them who owns a nice VW SUV mentioned her car being in the shop for issues. Conversation turned to the subject of brands and their reliability then to everyone asking each other what kind of car they own. When the question came to me I just said "BMW", no mention of what model. The four other people immediately did the...."Ohhh...look out...I guess you make a ton of money...my bad...Mr. BMW (this included my boss)." I just really hate this. I'm not rich.....very fortunate compared to others and, yes, able to comfortably afford my M3. But the perception by others.... I guess it is just in my head and I am sure it was harmless..but still. haha. __________________
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Gfit Lieutenant Colonel 2710 Rep 1,661 Posts Drives: 2023 X3M, 2024 X5M. Sold 2022 Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Westchester, NY iTrader: (0)	Guess it depends on where you are located. I see as many BMWs a day as I do Hondas. Means nothing in terms of wealth. I got a guy that lives a few doors down, mid 20s, college grad, drives a new M3. Can't afford to move out because he spent too much on car.
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08-10-2022, 11:59 AM	#3
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chicagofan00 Major General 19142 Rep 8,028 Posts Drives: 2024 X5 M60i Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Phoenix iTrader: (1) Garage List 2024 BMW X5 M60i [10.00]	And here I am as having a picture of my M3 as my avatar on Teams at work. If anyone tries to make a quip like that I usually just laugh and tell them I don't make good money but I have an excellent credit score that lets me get into all kinds of debt! Usually though the image just makes for a nice little ice breaker at the start of meetings and inspires some cool conversation. __________________ Instagram: @Phxrisingphotography Current - 2024 G05 X5 ///M60i in Java Green Past - 2005 E53 X5 3.0i in Titanium Silver; 2008 E92 335i in Montego Blue; 2019 G01 X3 M40i in Glacier Silver; 2022 G80 M3 Competition in Twilight Purple
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08-10-2022, 12:04 PM	#5
nearwater4me Colonel 1916 Rep 2,135 Posts Drives: '22 G82 Base Join Date: Sep 2019 Location: GA iTrader: (1)	Yup. I don't drive mine to work either. It's funny how their perception works on German brands when there's 2 brand new Grand Wagoneers parked in front of the office building.
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jimbethesda Colonel 1856 Rep 2,302 Posts Drives: M3 (F80) Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Austin iTrader: (0)	Even more of a ridiculous comment because you didn't mention the year or the model. A brand new Honda Accord is worth more than a 20-year old 325i. __________________ 2001 330Ci (sold) 2007 335i (sold) 2008 E90 M3 (sold) 2015 M3 (sold) 2022 G83
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bri1042 Brigadier General 5933 Rep 3,289 Posts Drives: 2021 IOMG M3 6MT Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Portland, OR iTrader: (0)	Last time I heard something like this is was from a coworker in the same GS grade as me who was, mere moments earlier, complaining about spending $600 a week feeding his family of 7 on a single income. My response was something along the lines of "well, I spend about $80 a week feeding just myself and about $20 a week feeding the cats..." Salary alone means nothing.
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08-10-2022, 12:29 PM	#17
MassComp Major 2124 Rep 1,241 Posts Drives: Porsche Macan GTS Join Date: Mar 2022 Location: Massachusetts iTrader: (0)	All BMW owners are rich, huh? I'll be purchasing my new M3 outright with a slightly used Porsche Macan & cash....does this classify me as rich too? "Rich" to me is not having to go to work anymore for a living, and I'm not at that point yet....especially with my expensive toy habit.... __________________ 3/19/22: Deposit placed on MY2023 Skyscraper Grey M3 Comp xDrive / 6/08/22: Dealer order placed - Status 047 / 6/25/22: Added Full Leather / 8/05/22: Received Allocation & Added Personal eSIM 5G / 09/18/22: Asked Dealership to Add M Drive Professional to My Build and They Canceled My Order
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