I can answer a few of these.
Break in: 5,500 RPM, and 106MPH
Auto Start/ Stop:
I don't know where the hell Sunshine is, so, I'm not sure what country you are in. My Genius set everything up when I took delivery. Auto/ Stop Start, was turned off, by my Genius Expert. This isn't an option in some countries.
Im on car 31. About 27 of those cars, have been brand new. On the 2 cars I have now, I selected the wheel and tire packages. I've never needed them, or used them, but about 3 months after I got my first car, that I have now, I hit a curb with the wheel, it was replaced by the dealer, no questions asked. About 8 months later. I got it for my M4, because I used it on my other car. Fast forward, 10 months, both front wheels, have hits, about 3 inches on them front grinding the curb a little. damn wheel spacers.
EQ Settings: