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Originally Posted by M5Rick
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Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan
That relationship ended Dec 2012, so a lot has changed. I'm more ready now. I was a year or so into a new career, we were going to relationship counseling, etc. She looked at marriage as a fix-all.
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She wanted to get married while you were not ready, I see and she didn't want to carry on as it was.
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Yes. Counseling revealed issues we both needed to work on (...
some sort of separation anxiety/fear of abandonment stuff on her part), so she had a tendency to display behaviors associated with that. She was beginning the fire fighter academy and gave me an ultimatum. Unfortunately those never go over well. We ended amicably and are still friends today. She is currently married to a Captain of a local fire department and they had a child a few years ago. She doesn't need to work. She's living her best life. Lol! I'm still chasing Porsche GT3's. Priorities! I joke!