Here are my current settings. The OEM behavior that I can't seem to override with Bimmercode or this unit is the defaulting of the ASD button to on when starting after the car has gone to sleep. So, I set force closed RPM range to 0 - 1600 when the button is on. When the button is off I have the valves open at 65% throttle. Now that I have a catless DP and a single mid I pretty much always turn the button off which keeps the car about as quiet as stock with the button on, but then when I tip the throttle past 65% (ie wot blasts) the valves open automatically. Of course, I can open the valves by turning on the button too.
Cold start with valves closed followed by 3 revs at less than 65% throttle (valves stay closed). The last three revs are valves open.